My
grand-aunt, my grandmother’s sister, didn’t have a child. She lived alone. She
had Alzheimer’s disease. I commuted to her house to care for her every week.
Taking
care of an aged relative is natural. I started it easily. But I faced a
difficult problem. She started to have problems managing money. Who should
manage her money?
I
really didn’t want to do it. Finally, I started to do it. I am a relative but a
distant one. I needed to manage her money very carefully. Because some other
relatives could blame me after she passes. When I visited her, I checked her
wallet and carefully recorded how much she had. If she didn’t enough money, I
added. She should keep some money at her home. I wrote down the date and how
much money she had.
First
of all, I needed the courage to ask her how much she had and in which bank.
“Please let me see your bankbook.”
This
sentence is difficult to say to anyone.
Fortunately,
I commuted to her house for several months. She trusted me, and she taught me
the place where she kept the bankbook.
When I found
out where she hid her bankbook, I was surprised. It looked like ordinary
furniture, but an unassuming part of it opened unexpectedly. There was a small
space to hide bankbooks and stamps. In Japan, you need a stamp to withdraw
money from a bank, so the stamp is also important. That place was opened
without a key, but no one can find it without being informed beforehand. Where
did she buy the furniture? How did they sell it to her? They can’t tell the
secret in their advertisement.
If I hadn’t
asked her about the bankbook, she might have forgotten the secret. In that
case, I would need to take care of her without money. The bankbook and the
stamp might be dumped with no one realizing it.
But Grand-aunt!
Surely you had a nice place to hide important things. But you should not hide
the bankbook and the stamp in the same place! Japanese insurance companies would
never compensate for theft if someone kept a bankbook and stamp in the same location!
Where
should we hide our important items? All of us will get older and die. To whom
should we tell the secret? This is a difficult problem.
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