Sightseeing Bus

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Yakudoshi is a traditional Japanese idea that 42-year-old men should be careful because many bad things happen at that age. Some places have special festivals to avoid these bad things. It depends on the area, but most festivals are organized by people who are 42 years old.

 My town has a festival of this kind. I took part in it a few years ago. I met many old friends I had not met since junior high school. All of us have become terrible middle-aged men.

 On New Year’s Day, we went to a local shrine. The priest said a prayer for us, and we had a party after. It seemed like a class reunion just for males with religious excuse.

 All junior high school class reunions are like that. In the beginning, we behave politely because we were already adults. But we started to become childish when we got drunk. We started calling each other with old nicknames.

 By the way, like the hop-on, hop-off bus in New York and the Original Tour in London, Nagoya has the Shachi Bus. My classmate T was a driver for the Shachi Bus. He also went to the party. Unfortunately, he had to work after. He couldn’t drink any alcohol during the party, so he just drank tea.

 Everyone knew about it, and some started making jokes.

“Hey, waitress! My friend T loves lemon sour. Please bring it for him.”

“Oh, no! We need lemon sour for T. Please bring it immediately!”

Bus drivers are strictly not allowed to drink alcohol before driving. The bus companies check their exhaled breath alcohol concentration. But in front of T was a daze of lemon sour glasses.

 T just gave them a bitter smile. He didn’t drink any of them at all.

 Dear friends! If you visit Nagoya, please take the Shachi Bus for sightseeing. The drivers have an iron will. They are sober. One of them is my classmate.

 I hope T enjoyed his lemon sour after his working hours.

Picture by Shintako

 

My Father Believed It

 

It is so hard to accept when a family member has Alzheimer’s disease. Other family members may think that it is a misdiagnosis, like I did. But it is even harder to accept that Alzheimer’s is an incurable disease. The family members start to look for some famous hospitals and great doctors, like I did. But no cure has been found for this disease yet.

After a while, the family members tend to accept the situation. Most of them give up seeking a way to recover, like I did. I just accepted the fact that there is no cure for the disease. My mother is in front of me, but I will never see my intelligent mother anymore. I understood.

It was about six years ago when my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease. My father and I talked about the renovation of our house; we lived together. I suggested for him to use my mother’s deposit for the expense. It was legal because the renovation was for the care of my mother.

But my father refused, saying, “If we do that, if she recovers from the disease in the future, she will be mad at me!”

I was surprised. He still believed her disease would be cured in the future.

He passed away shortly after that incident. I think he believed till the final moment of his life that she would recover.

My mother is in a nursing home now. There is a possibility a new remedy will be invented. Then she will be cured completely. If that happens, I have many things to say to her. Most of them are complaints.

I hope some medical geniuses would invent a great remedy as soon as possible.

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Jiji

 

We went to Tokyo Disneyland for our honeymoon. It was an extremely near place for a honeymoon. My generation experienced the bubble economy. Most of my friends spent their honeymoon in foreign countries. We couldn’t go abroad because my parents had serious diseases and we were the only caregivers in our family. We needed to go back to our hometown immediately if something happened.

After my father’s death, we still needed to take care of my mother who had Alzheimer’s disease. In those days, even a one-night travel was difficult for us.

Now that my mother is in a nursing home, we can go to foreign countries. Let’s go overseas! Actually, we haven’t gone yet.

We often visit theme parks in Japan. My wife loves them. I didn’t have any interest in them until I married. Now I find them interesting, especially when some of the visitors wear costumes that resemble their favorite characters. When in Rome, do as the Romans do.

The last time we went to a theme park, I wore a cute cap with a printed black cat. His name is Jiji from the film Kiki’s Delivery Service by Studio Ghibli.

When we entered a restaurant in the park, two young waitresses were in the entrance. One of them recognized my cap and said to the other waitress, “Look at him! Look at him! He is Jiji!”

The other waitress looked surprised and whispered, “He is not Jiji!”

During the meal, I kept thinking about their conversation. I couldn’t understand the meaning.

Finally, I reached a shocking conclusion. The other waitress had not watched Kiki’s Delivery Service as it was an old movie; she didn’t know Jiji, so she misunderstood.

“Jiji” could be a name for a cat. But the Japanese language has similar pronunciations for common nouns such as “jijii,” which has a negative meaning to describe an old man. The conversation was actually like this:

“Look at him! Look at him! He is Jiji!”

The other waitress might think, You should not call a customer a jijii. He is not (a) jijii!

The Japanese language doesn’t have articles.

They didn’t mean that. Both of them were on my side. If I didn’t have any sign of old age in my appearance, this misunderstanding would never had happened.

In 1998, I studied in the USA. My favorite comedy drama was News Radio. I was especially touched by Phil Hartman’s acting. When I had to leave the country, I thought, I want to see Phil Hartman. If it is possible, I want to become his pupil. Japanese traditional comedians have a master-and-pupil system. I assumed I could be his pupil.

When I started researching about him, I found a shocking fact. Phil Hartman was already dead. The News Radio that I always watched and laughed at every night was a rerun.

Jiji in Kiki’s Delivery Service was his final voice acting role. After the recording, he mysteriously died at age 49.

Now I am of the same age as Phil Hartman when he passed away. By next week, I will be older than him. I have a complex feeling about surpassing the long-dead person’s age.

When I started respecting Phil Hartman, I was in my twenties. I felt he was an old man. Now I am considered as an old man by young people. It is fair to him.

Phil Hartman was a great comedian. He was also an attractive actor who had a thousand faces and voices. I just wanted to be like him. But now I am just older than him.

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