When my
family moved into our new home, the moving company said, “If you have something
you want to throw away, we can dispose the articles, except for those that have
eyes, particularly dolls and pictures.” They said they couldn’t dispose even
stuffed toys and posters of singing idols.
Let us
think like we are workers in a moving company. If we dispose articles like
dolls and pictures, they could be precious dolls and memorable pictures of
someone whom we had never met. It could be spooky.
My
grandaunt didn’t have a child. After her passing, I cleared up her house. I
commuted to her house once a week. It took about two years. Of course, I
recycled those I could recycle. I separated her waste.
Her
husband, my granduncle, was a photo processing shopkeeper. His hobby was
photography. There were many photos in her house. I put off disposing the
photos because I assumed it was an easy job. I never had a spooky feeling about
the photos. My granduncle was my good friend. He would never curse me. Unfortunately,
when I was almost finished clearing up the house, I became sick. I stayed in a
hospital for a long time.
We
should not leave a house empty for a long time. From the hospital, I asked my
wife to employ a clearing up company. I didn’t think about the photos.
The
clearing company invited a Buddhist monk. The monk chanted a sutra for the
photos. Of course, we needed to pay him extra. I am not stingy, but if I
discarded the photos at first, we didn’t need any religious ceremony.
Dear friends, if you move or clear up things
left by deceased people, you should discard those that have eyes first. These
things should be handled by close people.
Picture by Masayuki Wada
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